Daddy's out there, beware. All eyes on you..

picture credits of Mr. Google



My beloved husband, with our 4 beautiful children.

Why is the topic related to Daddy? Well, isn't it obvious? We are celebrating Father's day this coming June 19th, aren't we? ;)

Saw a tweet on twitter a few days ago, someone freaked-out when he, lately, frequently saw daddy's with kids, and no mom's. He tweeted this:

Kenapa ayah/bapa yang sering bersama anak-anak apabila keluar, mana maknya? Aneh+cuak.

..and I answered:

mak kat rumah, masak. atau juga tunggu dlm kereta, tgh susukan baby & or jaga anak2 lain yg lebih kecik. atau juga tak sihat dll.

Hehe..Sounded harsh? No, right? It was more like, firm expression. Or should I say, firm stand? Whatever! I said what's true and what's normal.

Why do I have to stressed out about this? Not that I am bias or prejudice or feminism etc, ok.. I would like to just deliver my point of view. And to those beautiful women, moms, ladies and girls out there who's agree, do drop some comments.

I must admit, no matter how much I love my husband, a view of a guy (a dad) attending their children or kids, without appearance of a woman (the mother, of course!), is a pleasantly beautiful sight. That is the kind of guy who can be trusted. Especially, when that guy is ehem..a good looking one. Well, our husband is the most handsome guy in our live but hey, sometimes God is testing you, you know! ;) Honestly, I do feel a little shaky, un-safe when I spotted many pairs of eyes watching my husband attending my children in a shopping mall, food court, restaurants or even at the park. Honey, girls love a loving man, right? And isn't attending a child is a sign of loving? So, I shouldn't warn the dads, right? The warning should goes out to the moms.

Ok Moms!!! Beware!!!

Moms and Dads out there, love each other right and you'll be blessed and showered with love by God, all of your life. May each and everyone of you mom and dad out there lives in happiness always! Marriage is tough. But every tough moment, has a hidden treasure/ reward behind it!

I'm proud being a mom and married to the most un-explainable strict, funny, blur, intelligent, understanding and straight-forward guy in the world!

Selamat Hari Lahir ke 58, Ayah!

suasana, walau tidak semeriah mana, tapi tetap best!

jarang2 sebenarnya, celebrate bday ayah. tak perasan pulak kenapa. but yesterday, we celebrated not only dad's but also angah's, edry's and my little angel, A-een!

been at mom's as early as noon. sebab hubby agak busy for the day; dgn kete juara dia tersadai, site visit etc. at 5pm, start masak buttered rice. takde teringat plak nak tanya adik2 semua, sedap ke tak. mak balik keje awal semalam. tp ayah ttp ambik mcm biasa. so takde beza. hahahaha.. mak sempat ajak ayah gi ayamas, beli ayam percik. buat lauk utk gandingkan dgn buttered rice aku. since adik2 aku takde (angah keje, nina keje, erin ada xm, edry takleh drive), makanya, aku la pg beli kek. since erin tak bawak wahid sbb ayeep ambik dia, aku pun konon2 nak test driving skill, dgn setting dlm kepala yang wahid adalah makhluk manual. sekali masuk, laaaa...auto upernyer... tp sungguh aku terasa kerdil. maklum, dah lama tak bawak kancil. sek 9, mmg packed. dah la wahid tu degil ala-ala anak aku si darling tu. punya la lama nak tunggu dia menyetartkan diri. nasib baik aku hebat. hahahhahaha... cari parking kat area depan baker's cottage mmg payah. 4, 5 kali pusing, siap marah honda city kaler gold, sebab bodo2 parking kat laluan utama (blkg kete org yg elok di parkir), dan akhirnya dpt juga park bontot dulu betul2 depan baker's cottage. ngam2 parking, adik aku call.. 'kak, a-een dah bangun, cemana ni?' ah sudahhhh! aku suh dia main2 dgn a-een kejap. buat la apa yg patut. sib baik dia ok (both a-een & edry). edry terpaksa la berusaha, sbb dia kirim mcm2 plak kat baker's cottage tuh.. bila aku balik, budak2 semua ok. yeay! edry hebat. hehehehehe...

konon nak start majlis kul 6.30pm. tp gedebuk gedebak, kul 7++ juga mulanya. tunggu angah + family dan nina yg br abih meeting (dr putrajaya, pon missed the main event; nyanyi2 & tiup lilin).

overall, saya suka!!!!

happy birthday ayah.
happy birthday angah.
happy birthday adik.
happy birthday a-een.

Father's day is coming...

June is Father's month. Hail all GOOD fathers in the world!

i still have my dad. he's well and kicking (hehehe..), Alhamdulillah. he may not be as strong as he was 20 years ago but he is still my idol. he worked hard then, and still do, now. only the difference, then was for the continuity growth of his family tree, and now for his own pleasure and hobby and perhaps some legacy to be left behind for his grandchildren so forth. he has transformed, i would say. from somewhat ordinary to someone extraordinary. i admire his will and determination in doing something. he fails and succeeds. that's what makes him, who and what he is, today. i love my dad very much. though he was rarely at home (he worked shifts, back then), he seldom asked me on how was i doing in school, not ever appeared during any of my award giving ceremonies etc, bla..bla.. typical old time dad!
BUT! he did have time to send me to school (most of the time, late! he finished work at 7am and were only reached home at 7.50!!). reminiscing those days, the memories, i smiled in teary eyes.

now that i am a mother, and my hubby is often home late, often out here and there doing his on-field-sound-engineer job, and my children look up on him waaaayyyy much more than me, i can not argue no more. i was once in their shoes! every time i battled with myself, why am i not being praised by my children as they do to their father, for i'm the one gave birth to them, bathe them, feed them, manage them at home bla..bla.. i will go back to those years, when i was their age, and i will be calm. and smiling again.

father, in a way, manage to make their children proud, regardless of however they treat their children at home. err... certainly not those kind of fathers who beaten up their children to death. those are stupid fathers. a disgust to a 'Father Society'.

Ayah, kakak sayang ayah! dan tak akan jemu untuk ucapkannya berulangkali, walau selamanya.

as to my beloved hubby, you are a good father. i love you lots. and you deserve a good Father's Day treat. later, ya? :p